From the Founder

Hey. I’m Joe.

I’m a veteran, husband, and dad who’s been through more than I ever expected. Probably like you, I’ve had to learn how to carry it without letting it crush me.

Calloused Mind didn’t come from a business plan. It came from breakdowns. From staring at the ceiling at 2am, feeling as if I was losing my mind. From watching friends I loved slip away to suicide and addiction, to pain they couldn’t outrun. 

It came from surviving that stuff myself, and still trying to be a good man, a present father, and someone who builds something better instead of staying stuck in the dark.

I created Calloused Mind because I needed something that made sense. Something that didn’t ask me to be “tougher” or “better” or “fixed.” I needed something that said:

“It’s okay to still be figuring it out. Just keep showing up.”

So I started making shirts. Ones that felt like armor some days and lifelines the next. Messages that told the truth.


Now here we are.


If you found your way here, maybe you’ve been through some sh*t too.

Maybe you’re still going through it.

Just know you’re not alone. You’re not weak. And you’re not broken beyond repair.


This brand is built for you—for all of us.

The ones still trying. Still healing. Still here.


Thanks for showing up.


—Joe
Founder, Calloused Mind